The use of our past has nearly come to an end when we allowed it to tress pass the effect that it was only thoughts.
Have we ever ruled our past , unfortunate events we had nothing to do with?
Our negative history builds blocks around and inside our hearts , preventing us from proceeding , sever cases made some of us act like a child in certain places as if they were brought back in time in that exact place, where a transformation of an adult happenes right in front of your eyes. It is weird , nothing to do but to stair.
I would assume since I AM NOT A PSYCHIATRIST , that such events in the past must be taken care of , in that matter methods can come to handy like starting forgiving ones self , since back then we acted as we know best , we must not judge ourselves , this is the best we could have done back then , all we need to start doing is forgive our selves at that point of time, we must go back , we can not change the past , but we can deal with it.
And if there is more to this than us being there , and there are others who did hurt us , or even stood there doing nothing we better forgive then as well , now starting the process will take a whole lot of power and energy , we might cry but I promise we will be relieved.
Go back look it up phase by phase and start forgiving , it will widen and the network will help us get back to where we are now with enhanced power to move on.
This is not a chain letter but do not ignore what it has because it was tried and it worked.